We bedshare with our 16 months old. She naps in our bed too, but we still have the crib set up and I'll stick her in there once in a blue moon when I need a shower.

She was refusing to nap today for two hours and as a last ditch attempt I laid her in the crib and closed the door. After three minutes of whining I heard angry crying and went to check on her.

She was standing by the door, crying, yelling and pointing at the crib.

Oh good, she learned to climb out of her crib without ever really using it. And she never did nap today.

Wine??