About how much a month would you say you spend on pampering yourself? Define it however you wish - nice haircut, stitch fix purchase, massage, bath product, etc - anything purely for your enjoyment and not a necessity or for the kids/family.

For me, I'd say most months $0. However, I'm thinking about deliberately setting aside something in the budget each month for this. I think it would help my mental health and stave off the feeling that my own needs matter least.