When you think about how/where you want to give birth, were you ever discouraged by what others thought? If you wanted to have a natural birth did you find it upsetting when people would try to put the fear of god into you, stating you just don't understand HOW MUCH PAIN you will be in? Or how you're not strong enough to forego an epidural? How did you deal or respond to the criticism??
I would love to have a water birth at home with a midwife and doula... my husband understands my desire however is very hung up on making sure both the baby and I are safe if something should go awry. We live VERY close to a hospital (5 min max.) and I think we would be fine... just starting to think that it won't happen how I want. DH has been supportive and much less critical than others.