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Poas analysis for a friend

  • poll: What do you think?
    Positive, wait it out : (96 votes)
    86 %
    Positive, but light for 12 dpo, maybe a chemical : (11 votes)
    10 %
    No idea, I just like polls : (2 votes)
    2 %
    Too early to test : (2 votes)
    2 %
  1. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @MrsKoala: thanks! Me too. She's still keeping the hope, so I am too

  2. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @LAZB: My brother and sister-in-law were faced with a similar situation this time last year. They opted to continue the pregnancy and let nature decide. It's a terrible situation to be in. I'm glad your friend opted to do what she felt was right for her. In the end that's all that matters.

  3. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    I wish your friend the very best! What a heartbreaking and traumatizing diagnosis to receive. As you may know, we received a similar diagnosis with our third son (open spina bifida and hydrocephalus) but based on his brain damage, decided not to continue the pregnancy. I hope her child has a very good outcome.

  4. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @winniebee: thanks. I know I had mentioned my friend to you on FB before, you both received the diagnosis at a similar time. Unfortunately, things are not looking good. Baby's kidneys are shuttng down, and it looks like they may only be able to provide comfort care after she is born. They are still keeping her in as long as possible, but the prognosis is getting more and more dim.

  5. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @LAZB: so sad I'm so sorry!! I'm convinced there are just no right decisions in these situations. You just do the best you can with the information that you have. I hope things turn around, even if it doesn't look good now.

  6. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    As an update for anyone following, my friend's baby passed away this morning. She lived for almost two months, they got to enjoy life at home with her, went to parks, festivals, out to eat, had her baptized, met many friends, and all sorts of "normal" family activities. They are so happy to have had the time they did with her. Now she has joined our son in heaven, and we will try to do our best to support them down here.

  7. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    @LAZB: So much love to your friends... I can't even imagine what they are going through right now...

  8. ValentineMommy

    pomelo / 5791 posts

    @LAZB: I am so sorry to read this. Prayers for your friend.

  9. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @LAZB: I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm glad that your friend got some time with her baby.

  10. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @ValentineMommy: @Adira: @winniebee: thanks y'all

  11. Rescuemom10

    pear / 1965 posts

    @LAZB: Thoughts a prayers for your friend. What a blessing to have some time as a family to do all those wonderful things, but even harder to then let go and say good bye. Many, many prayers.

  12. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @Rescuemom10: thank you

  13. MrsKoala

    cantaloupe / 6869 posts

    @LAZB: I'm so sorry for their loss but glad that they got two months with their baby and that they were able to do so much with her.

  14. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @MrsKoala: thanks. I'm really glad they had the time, definitely better than the alternative

  15. MrsB2012

    nectarine / 2466 posts

    I'm so sorry to hear this ending, but glad to know they had two beautiful months with their baby

  16. daniellemybelle

    cantaloupe / 6669 posts

    @LAZB: What a heartbreaking story - much love to your friend

  17. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @MrsB2012: @daniellemybelle: thank you


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