This may be a little long, but here goes. This weekend was hell. I got home Thursday night to a bill from our first RE for an appointment in January. I was fuming because we shouldn't have been charged for it but were (plus clomid=extra ragey). We went online and found all of our stuff from the new RE was also denied but we hadn't seen a bill yet. I was very upset but thought I would hash it out with our insurance Friday morning. I called the insurance and found out that because the IF diagnosis code was used they will no longer cover any of our services, our best bet was to talk to our doctor to see if we could get it changed or to appeal it but she warned me they had already appealed on our behalf and it was denied. I called the first RE's office and they were sympathetic but couldn't understand why it was denied with the use of that code and they wouldn't get it changed. So we are starting the appeal process but I don't have much hope. We decided that we can't really afford to pay for treatments out of pocket without at least some of it being covered so we are done for the time being (after this cycle, it seems stupid to spend so much money and go through half a cycle and not complete it). I was and am crushed, I spent the majority of the weekend in a crying/depressed funk . It feels like we will never be parents. At the same time I feel a bit relieved. I am so tired of fighting for this. I want a child but I don't want all this pain and heartache. I may not be around for a while if this IUI doesn't work because it just might be too hard.