I'd have thought this had been discussed before, but not seeing it in a search. Anyway, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day is coming up. http://www.october15th.com/ I'm not really doing much for it; it's a little too raw yet, but we'll light a candle at 7. We have a brick with River's name and birthday at a memorial garden in Indiana (DH's cousin who lost a baby in similar circumstances lives there, and got us the brick, and their bricks are together), and they do a ceremony for it, so maybe another year we'll feel up to going to that.

Anyway, I just wanted to share. And if anyone wants to post a picture of their candle, I think all of us who have had a miscarriage or loss would appreciate it (or at least I would).