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I'm so sorry.

I'm sorry

does a heating pad help? heat with pain meds works wonders for me

Mine was much earlier (4-5ish weeks) but very painful. Bleeding and very painful cramps lasted about 7 days. I woke up every morning wishing it would just be over. I'm so sorry.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm so so sorry to read this. No advice, but I hope the pain is short lived.
Big hugs friend.

I'm so so so so sorry!!!! big hugs, mama

Oh I'm so sorry

*big hugs*

@petunia354: I'm so sorry you're going through this mama.

To answer your question about the tissue, my natural MC at 6 weeks was just bigger clumps of blood and not unlike a heavy period. From my MC at 10 weeks (stopped growing at 8wks), an actual fetus and placenta came out This was very difficult and traumatic, I will never forget it. The fetus was a about the 3/4 of my thumb in size.

I hope the blood and cramping pass quickly for you so you may begin to heal physically and eventually, emotionally

I don't have any answers, just wanted to send my love. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

I am so sorry for your loss.

My loss at 7 weeks was very painful too. Like a really painful period. But only for 2-3 days. I was off of work at the time. I passed clots but nothing bigger than a quarter. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Eta; I bled a bit longer than 2-3 days but the pain subsided.

I'm really sorry to hear this. Sorry you're having all this physical pain too I had a missed MC at 8w, baby stopped at 6w so while it was a horrible surprise, I didn't feel any pain leading up to it because my body hadn't recognised it yet. I chose t have a suction d&e because I didn't want to wait any longer. Also the sac was still growing and I had been told that can be sometimes painful to pass on your own. The procedure went smoothly and physically I was fine. About five days later I had period cramps and then passed a big bit of tissue, but after that it was all over. Heating pad definitely helped with those cramps. Emotionally I was a real mess though. And it has been two months since finding out, and I'm still a bit shaken! Good luck with the recovery.

I'm so sorry for your loss

I am so sorry.

I miscarried at 7.5 weeks and it was pretty painful. It started in the evening and continued through the night. I wasn't able to sleep until the worse my was over at 4am. My husband just slept and occasionally told me he was sorry everytime I moaned. I am still bitter about the fact that he didn't get up and help me through it, though he does have health issues that make him super tired. I hope that you have good support. I didn't take ibuprofen because I was in denial and didn't want to take it in the event that it wasn't a mc, since you can't take while pregnant. I got through it with just Tylenol. I think a heating pad is a good idea. I did pass a small intact embryo. It was really small, smaller than a grape. I also passed a lot of other stuff not intact but also not like a heavy period....pieces of placenta and umbilical cord. Sorry to be so graphic, but I know it's hard not to know what to expect. I was googling for info the whole night. Feel free to wall me if you want to talk.

This might be TMI, but I saved the embryo in case my doctor wanted to test it. I put it in a container in the freezer. When I saw my doctor, she didn't ask for it, so my husband and I buried it. We said a prayer together and carved a heart and cross into the tree that was next to the spot we chose. It helped me to gain some closure.

Again, I'm very sorry.

I'm so sorry friend, thinking of you

I just wanted to send you a hug. I am so sorry.