Dh always gets mad when lo and I do something fun when he's at work...... which I get...... but does he expect us to sit there bored all day long?

He does agree that he wants to to get out of the house and have fun. He just wants to be there when she does it! Sometimes we'll go to his favorite restaurant for breakfast if there's family in town, and we are probably going to get an annual pass to the aquarium, things like that. I figure I have to do all the hard work with her during the day, I don't feel bad about getting to have fun too!