I have a hard time finding SAHMs who share my values! I'm very liberal but most SAHMs I know are conservative. You'd think this wouldn't be an issue but it does come up as we go on playdates and make different parenting decisions, and when we talk relationships (people are always telling me to submit..no lie!). Kinda sucks! I have a love/hate relationship with playdates and can't really open up to any IRL friends (most of my IRL liberal friends are either childfree or live elsewhere).