Have you ever taken a mental health and not told your SO? I've been having a little dream, now that it's nicer out, of leaving in the morning at my normal time and then spending the whole day doing nothing. I haven't done anything like that this whole pandemic. I don't exactly know why part of the appeal is that it's secret except maybe that DH and I have so much togetherness that it would be fun to have something that's just for me. It's weird - I would feel weird and guilty for not telling, but if he knew I was taking the day off, I would feel guilty not taking care of some things like the laundry and dishes.