What a great article!

It's so easy for us moms to feel we have to matter "less" when it comes to our births b/c a "healthy baby" is what is *most important*. The fact is though we still matter.. just like our health mattered in pregnancy it matters in birth!

"...what happens to us happens to our babies."

http://www.improvingbirth.org/2013/05/selfish-women/