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  1. Sugar.Biscuit

    nectarine / 2063 posts

    It is something he has struggled and refused to give up in the past but claims he has nothing to hide. He knows what I use as passwords and I have given all of them to him at some point but when the tables are turned the story is very different. Doesn't really help develop trust, IMO. Well last night I told him I wanted all his info & passwords and he said okay, I'll type up a list an get it to you. My mouth hit the floor! Of course now my mind is racing wondering why now? I have had trust issues in the past with my ex's & him (for the obvious reason of hiding his info) so I am going to do my best not to check anything unless I have to. We have therapy tonight so it will be interesting to see how it goes.

  2. littlek

    GOLD / squash / 13576 posts

    Nope and if he did tell me I would never remember. I have trouble remembering my own passwords.

  3. Rainbow Sprinkles

    eggplant / 11287 posts

    Yep, but we share everything. Accounts, credit cards, even our facebook.
    We are so, so open with each other. If he wanted privacy when it came to his e-mail or facebook I totally wouldn't mind, but he just likes to share I guess.

  4. Sugar.Biscuit

    nectarine / 2063 posts

    By the way I should add that he has lots of medical problems and has several surgeries coming up so I asked for this info as a piece of mind rather than to creep on him. He recently took over all the finances so he has all my banking information & our joint account info but I have non of his. Heaven for bid anything happen I'd be lost for months!

  5. Crisark

    pomegranate / 3398 posts

    Yes, we know it all.

  6. runsyellowlites

    coconut / 8305 posts

    Yep, we share EVVVVVERRRRRRYthing.

  7. Grace

    cantaloupe / 6730 posts

    Nope. Never been a need to, but we'd give eachother the passwords if one of us asked.

  8. cheert16

    nectarine / 2631 posts

    Nope. We both have seperate bank accounts, credit cards, etc. He knows my FB password though, only cuz i needed him to delete something once- and I know his- but its not really a big deal to us. If we needed something we would just ask each other for the password and go from there!

  9. HabesBabe

    grapefruit / 4400 posts

    Nope-- I think the only thing we know of each other's is our debit card PINs since we sometimes use each other's cards at the ATM or the store.

    I wouldn't want to know his FB/email passwords and he wouldn't want to know mine. We don't think that we have to share everything.

  10. Dapple Grey

    clementine / 780 posts

    My husband doesn't do social media or anything heavy internet wise, but for things like e-mail and banking we share everything.

  11. lovehoneybee

    GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts

    We share financial stuff and we both usually stay logged into FB/email/Amazon on our own computers. I keep a sheet with all of our usernames/passwords for everything with our other important documents (birth certificates, tax stuff, etc)...just in case something happens to one of us the other can access everything.

  12. pinkcupcake

    cantaloupe / 6751 posts

    Yup, we share bank accounts, credit cards, etc. We know each other's fb and email pws but don't check or log into each others accounts

  13. Mrs. Bee

    admin / watermelon / 14210 posts

    not email but yes to everything else not that i remember any of them anyway...

  14. AmeliaBedelia

    cherry / 235 posts

    Not everything, no. We have joint financial accounts, so we obviously both know those passwords. I wouldn't honestly want to keep up with his email/facebook stuff, I have enough passwords to remember for work and my own! haha. If I asked he'd tell me, and vice versa, but there's no need. Plus we know eachother's phone passcodes, which are automatically linked to FB/email/etc.

  15. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    Yes, we share or have access to everything. Sometimes we forget, or if I don't know it I just ask. Never had any issues...

    @Sugar.Biscuit: I'm sorry to hear that how did counseling go?

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