So DH and I had sex Sunday night and Monday night. Tonight, Tuesday night, I got a positive OPK--and DH is asleep and won't wake up! Any idea if this cycle is a lost cause? I'm ready to knock him out haha!
So DH and I had sex Sunday night and Monday night. Tonight, Tuesday night, I got a positive OPK--and DH is asleep and won't wake up! Any idea if this cycle is a lost cause? I'm ready to knock him out haha!
pomelo / 5628 posts
Definitely not lost! I would still do it tomorrow morning or night to be safe, but the other 2 should be good too.
My surge just happened right before I O'd and I had my IUI this morning after O. Some people get a surge a day or two before O. The egg lives for about 24 hours...
Are you charting too? That will help you confirm when you're ok to stop.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
DH and I only had sex time, 2 days before I ovulated and the day before I got a positive OPK, and we got pregnant this cycle, so definitely still a chance.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I wouldn't lose hope. Sperm can hang out up there for a few days. I've read a lot that having sex a couple days before ovulation is a good thing.
eggplant / 11824 posts
Don't lose hope!! I didn't realize the sperm lived for a few days, so we had sex, several days later got the positive OPK and used a condom (we were going to start TTC the next month) and well....here I am 14 weeks pregnant.
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
Do it tomorrow! But the sperm from yesterday might even do the trick - apparently sperm can live for up to 5 days or something!
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
Thanks for the quick replies! I guess we will see what happens! Cross my fingers, cause he is out like a light! & he goes to work early (430) so im thinking tomorrow am is probably out
apricot / 307 posts
Far from it. Sex before a positive OPK is encouraged. I think you're in good shape with BD there. Also, give him a rest. Every other day gives his spermies a day to cycle through.
honeydew / 7968 posts
not a lost cause! sperm lasts awhile! good luck! and you still have tomorrow!
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts
Most advice I've read says to BD the day before and day of/day after, so you should be fine!
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
@Mrs Green Grass: I'm sorry I totally forgot to answer the charting question. I'm not only because I never wake up at the same time so I was all over the places with temps
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