LO is 10 months. Has always been low sleep needs. We've been doing 2 naps for a long time and it was working great- roughly around 9:30 and 1:30 give or take an hour depending on when he woke up..

Twice in the past week he has flat out refused his second nap and succeeded despite my best efforts. Today was the second time - he napped 9:45-11 and then was asleep by 6:20. He was happy as a clam the entire afternoon/evening.

DH gets frustrated when he gets home and it's basically time for dinner and bath and I feel bad/guilty that LO has been awake for so long.

Should I just take the plunge and not put him down for his first nap until later?? How late? Do I nurse him before I put him down then? Ack!

I'm scared to mess with things, our nurse/sleep/eat schedule was so easy for a while!