DH hates my cat, he liked him when we were dating, not anymore. So he has no sympathy for me or the cat right now. Anyways so my cat has been having problems peeing and the vet said I need to get him in right away. Possible blockage, infection, etc. Now I'm worried about my KJ! I haven't taken him to the vet sense I got him 6 years ago because he is an indoor cat & I grew up on the farm. We just never took cats to the vet unless it was an indoor/outdoor cat & now I feel like a horrible mother!

I had put down my first dog (and watched it) several years ago and I have always felt guilty for not giving him the quality of life he deserved. He ended up an old outside dog who had seizures & glaucoma. His time was coming I just wish I would have been a better caretaker for him. Now I'm feeling like a horrible owner for not taking KJ to the vet regularly. I take the dogs at least once a year, so why not the cat?!