When did you start sleep-training your LO? What method did you use? How did it work for you?
I'm sure there are other methods besides what I listed, so please share if you used a different method and how it worked for you!
When did you start sleep-training your LO? What method did you use? How did it work for you?
I'm sure there are other methods besides what I listed, so please share if you used a different method and how it worked for you!
22 votes
nectarine / 2039 posts
How about this one: it worked the first time (at 5 months), but not the 2nd time (middle of 6 months).
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
I didn't vote - we let him cry a little at 4 months because getting him to bed was awful. We didn't do CIO per se but we just let him cry after all his needs were met. Didn't go back in to soothe (he got worked up if we went back in) and he never cried more than 10 minutes. He still wakes once overnight (6 months) and I haven't tried to eliminate that feed. If he wakes before 2 a.m. or so I let him cry a little overnight (again, like 10 minutes). 50% of the time he goes back to sleep on his own and then either sleeps through or wakes around 3-4 to feed.
pomelo / 5178 posts
We never sleep trained DD. She swaddle weaned herself, and her sleep dramatically improved around 1 year, so we never needed to.
We swaddle weaned DS at about 4 months, and we started no-cry training about 2 weeks ago (he's 8 months). We got a bit off track over Thanksgiving, while we were out of town, but I am seeing a little improvement in his sleep. So hopefully he keeps improving and we don't have to resort to CIO.
pomelo / 5093 posts
At 13 months my baby was waking up 2-4 times a night to nurse, sometimes for an hour or more. One night, at my wits end, we just sent my husband down alone to snuggle with her on her floor bed. She cried for 3 minutes, and then they tucked in and slept the rest of the night. Now she either sleeps through, or wakes at 4 and snuggles with daddy the rest of the night. Either way, I don't nurse her overnight any more. Her father loves to snuggle with her, so we'll continue this arrangement until forever, basically.
nectarine / 2886 posts
We sleep trained at around 4.5-5 months using Weissbluth's CIO method. I have to say, it was life-changing. Before, LO would take these 30 minute crap naps several times a day but after CIO, she takes naps 3 times a day that are at least 1 hour long, usually 2 hours on average. And she goes to bed between 5:30-6p every night and doesn't wake up until 6:30-7a.
eggplant / 11824 posts
We have not had any need to sleep train. LO goes to sleep somewhere between 7-9pm and sleeps through the night. I figure, if it ain't broke; don't fix it!
cherry / 111 posts
Here's our experience. We CIO at 15 or 16 weeks. Good luck!! I think sleep training is really important.
http://sugarspiceliving.blogspot.com/2012/11/sleep-training.html
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
we sleep trained charlie at 4.5 months using ferber. he was pretty easy to sleep train for nights. nap training was harder.
we nap trained olive at 8 months. she was the easiest baby ever to nap train because she didn't cry. i just started night training this week (she's almost 14 months), and it's been going amazingly well. (knock on wood)
first night i did a check at 5 minutes. she cried 15 min total and woke up twice at night and i nursed her. last night she woke up once in the middle of the night and cried when i put her back in her crib awake after nursing her, but only for 30 seconds and then slept through the night. had to wake her at 8am! hoping night 3 is just as smooth and she's sleeping through the night soon!
apricot / 475 posts
We haven't officially sleep trained but we have a bed time routine where we put LO down after nursing when he's usually awake and let him fall asleep on his own. We turn off the lights and then sit with him (no talking, no interaction, just being present) until he falls asleep. After about three weeks of this we have now started leaving the room after 5-10 minutes if he's not asleep and he usually passes out on his own. Sometimes we have to go back in and hold his hand but we don't need to pick him up or hold him.
I always planned on sleep training around 6 months but I dont think we'll need to, this slow/soft approach has worked really well and with no crying.
DS was 4 months when we started using this routine every night, before then I nursed to sleep most nights.
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