I just need to vent and any advice is welcome.

Dh and I are trying to transfer from NYC to Philly to be close to my parents and have a lower cost of living. DH asked his company for a transfer in January, and they still haven't given us an answer. The request is stalled and we aren't sure of the status as it's been bounced around many times with no one willing to pull the trigger.

I am waiting to talk to my company until either we get a "yes" for DH or an actual job is posted in the location I want to transfer to. I've been monitoring the postings for months and nothing has popped up.

I'm just so frustrated and stressed at the lack of decision making from DH's company. It doesn't help that his boss is never in the office and very unresponsive although he does fully support the move and has been helping to push it along. I don't know at what point he should give up and start looking for anothe job.. Which neither of us want him to do since he loves his job and has been promoted.

Has anyone else been through this? How did the process go for you?