If it's emotional and secretive then it's FOR SURE cheating to me. Any physical contact that is deemed intimate (even kissing) is also cheating.
The question is, what would I do about it? No idea.
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Emotional and kissing is cheating for sure..
I'd go to counseling before making any decisions..
My trust is such a fragile thing so any type of cheating and we'd be doomed.Btw are you headed home today?!
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@chopsuey119: Yup! Be back tonight - can't wait!
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@Rubies: hope the flight goes well! There's no place like home!!
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ANY TYPE OF INDISCRETION that is purposely unspoken or hidden with INTENT.
I'd chop his balls off. LOLOL figuratively speaking?
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@mrsjyw: That's a lot of ALL CAPS!!
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@mrbee: I hope you heard me in NYC ... ;P
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@mrsjyw: Haha heard you loud and clear!!
If I instant message with an ex, is that an indiscretion?
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@mrbee: context... if you guys are friends, no -- you're just keeping in touch and staying within what is already the norm for your current friendship.
if you guys don't talk at all and you happen to "wonder" how they are?... i think it could be questionable... esp if Mrs.Bee didn't know about it (you purposely didn't tell her)...
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@mrsjyw: Ah ok. Was just wondering what counted as an indiscretion!
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@mrsjyw: I've totally had bfs in the past "wonder" about someone they had history with and try to hide it! Not cool!
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I agree kissing is definitely cheating, as is an emotional connection with someone when the partner is unaware it is going on. Any thing you feel the need to sneak from your partner is questionable behavior.
I have no idea what I would do, we have a very honest relationship and are both anti-cheating so I can say with confidence that I don't believe I will have to worry about finding out.
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