What age did you start talking to your kids about stranger danger and - specifically - about their "privates?" At D's 3-year well visit, when the pediatrician was examining his penis, he told D that only Mommies, Daddies, and doctors should ever touch that because it's private. He then encouraged us to start having similar conversations with him, but nothing more elaborate than that because he won't get it. D's still in diapers, so his daycare teachers, grandparents, etc, are still all up in there. It caught me so off-guard in the appointment that I didn't think of it, but I'm not sure how to make the point right now since so many people are still changing his diapers. Maybe just say only when someone is changing your diaper, or Mommy, Daddy, or Dr?

It also is just like, "Ugh, really!?" I'm not ready for this! I know it's totally necessary, and the conversation will only get harder as he ages, but... Even though he doesn't really "get" the implication of WHY it should only be those people, it still feels a little bit like a loss of innocence.

When did/will you start having this talk with your LOs?