When you do toddler swim lessons at an indoor pool (like a Y or whatever), do both parents attend? Do you switch who goes in the water with LO or always the same parent? Do you shower LO off after or just change and do bath that night? Do YOU or SO shower?

We are three lessons in and I still don't feel like we have a handle on it. And so far not getting better- she cried through the whole lesson last week. I'm going to try going in instead of dh today, since she has a huge mommy preference, but I'm annoyed because I wanted it to be a little break for me, but if she enjoys it more I guess it's worth getting my 7 month pregnant self into the pool.