I've posted about the situation with my aunt a few times. I need to head to Michigan for the funeral when I find out. The original plan was to probably leave the next day and take a day and a half to get up there with LO and DH. I anticipated the funeral being 3-4 days after she goes.

My mom said they want to do it 2 days later. That would mean that, with our plan, we could easily not make it in time if we have to stop more than expected.

DH had offered to watch LO while I go for a few days. Obviously I could get up there sooner without her. She's just been fussy lately so I don't know how she would handle a few days without me. And I feel like my mom would like seeing her at a time when she's so down.

But with the new information, should I consider leaving her at home again?