Okay, ladies I need serious help. The stroller I want doesn't seem to exist! Or if it does, I can't find it. Here are my list of demands:

-4 wheel
-lightweight (25lbs or less)
-infant seat snaps directly into frame (without car seat adapter)
-stands when folded
-large basket
-full seat recline to bassinet (don't want separate bassinet - no room for it in our house)

The Graco Modes Click Connect travel system actually does meet all of these demands, but my mom who is buying the stroller for us basically refuses to buy it because she is a label queen and doesn't think it's good enough. She is obsessed with the Uppababy Vista (because my sister had it) but honestly I'm not a huge fan for multiple reasons.

A few other strollers come close (city versa, britax b-ready, peg-perego book plus) but none fully meet the mark.

Help! (or just tell me I have completely unrealistic expectations)