We just brought LO home from the hospital. My ILs are watching my older son. Their other two kids drove down to spend the day. DH's grandparents also came by. And then his aunt and two daughters asked to stop by because they were in town today.
No one asked us, they just asked my ILs. And I don't know why "let's give them at least a few hours at home before company" would've been so hard.
Also, I don't want to hear people tell me I'm lucky I had a premie.