Gah, I had my worst night last night. My 22 month old, who has been a great sleeper, the last few nights has gotten impossible for me to put down.....It's awful. Here's out nighttime routine.

Brush teeth
Put pj's on
Read 1-2 books
Turn on the sound machine and night light
Snuggle on the rocker while singing 2 songs
Put her down, still awake

She's been doing this for months, and worked great. But now the last few nights (normally DH and I switch off putting her down) that I've tried putting her down, when I walk to the crib, she clings to my shirt, and screams and cries the second I try putting her in the crib. I will try rocking/singing a little bit more, and try again. but it keeps happening. But then the moment DH comes in, he will take her hold her for 1-2 minutes to calm her down, and she goes down instantly for him. Why?!?!

DH didn't get home last night until 9:30, so I tried since 8 last night to put her down, and nothing worked. I was at my wits end. DH came home, and put her down in under a minute...WTF?!

Is this a normal "sleep regression"? Just a phase? What am I doing wrong?! I'm like emotionally drained, and I feel like a failure. And to make matters "worse" DH is thinking about a 2nd shift job....I was in tears last night thinking about that everyday Mon-Fri....