I put my daughter in two pigtails today. I have to do it really tight or she'll pull the rubber bands out. I'm worried about her getting headaches. Would I even know or would she just be super fussy and I would have to play the guessing game?

Also, she has beautiful little curls on the ends that are forming o's. Does anyone use any hair gel, leave in conditioner on their toddler's hair? If so, is there any brand that worked well for you? Did the curls eventually fall off when you cut their hair or it got too long?