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I love the replay plates linked above! The suction ones don't really work.

The BabyGuy (who is my gear guru) swears by these plates! I might get a couple of we have another kid. http://www.ezpzfun.com/

It's been a learning curve but she got better about not tossing things. The suction bowls actually made her want to pick them up more, like it was a challenge. So I guess my advice is to get whatever basic plates you like and only put a little bit of food on at a time. C still sometimes prefers to hand me the plate and eat off the tray, which is fine, but over time she has started eating off the plate more and tray less. But I definitely don't give the whole meal to her at once, I put a few pieces on the plate and refill as she goes.

Boon Catch Plate with Spill Catcher, Orange/Blue https://www.amazon.com/dp/B006S8Y68A/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_VnVevb1WWC1K7

I found my daughter ate better when everything is on one surface versus divided into compartments.
Once she got past the throwing stage we started using the dessert plate size of our dinnerware. Only really used baby cutlery and dinnerware in the first few months.

we use the same ones as smurfette. they're a great size! the throwing food off the table was a short phase and the boon suction bowl we had never worked. i've been fascinated by those bowl/placemats though!

We also use the Re-Play plates. LO started around 13 months or so, and he has only thrown the plate off the table once out of anger. LO is also 16 months old. I think having a big brother to look up to and set an example has helped for us.

We have this one: http://www.amazon.com/SugarBooger-Divided-Suction-Plate-Icky/dp/B00746WUEW
Worked really well. Sometimes had to wet the suction to get it on, but then it stuck really good. Around 17 months we realised that LO wouldn't fling her plate and took the suction ring off. Lots of cute designs too.

EZPZ plate/mat is awesome! They are dishwasher safe and easy to wipe clean too. You could get by with just one or two. We even take ours out to eat, and it makes it so much easier not having to worry about my toddler tossing plates on the floor. Everywhere I go, people always comment on what a great idea they are.

@T.H.O.U.: I put them on a separate regular small plate to heat up and then transfer to the replay plate.

Same as @hilsy85: I try and not reheat anything in plastic.

We use some plastic plates from Target and bowls too. They are the salad plate size. We did have a problem with him dumping his food when he was done, but we trained him to hand us the plate instead of dumping it.

We use the cheap divided kiddie plates from the Target dollar spot (they usually have them for every holiday). At first we just dumped his food on his high chair tray, then we moved to literally taping the plate to the tray with clear packing tape or blue painters tape, and then when he realized he couldn't flip the plate over, we alternated days we didn't tape the plate but closely supervised. For the past month we haven't taped his plate and alternate between the Target plates and the non compartmentalized IKEA kids plates depending on the meal and we have only had one plate flipping incident. We notice he only does it or attempts it at the end of the meal so we just sit next to him and ask him if he's done a bunch of times and act like we are taking the plate away. If he's really done he doesn't care but if he isn't he'll yell until you give him the plate back.

Another vote for the replay plates. I wish I had found them sooner.

We have matching plates/bowls/cups/utensils from Ikea. My daughter loves the colors and gets a kick out of picking out matching or non-matching sets, depending on her mood. They have held up very well, but we don't microwave or dishwash plastic.

http://m.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/art/50192959/