cantaloupe / 6206 posts
@MrsDragon: OMG!!! I saw *nothing* on either of your other tests, how is this one so clear?!? WOW!
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
@JoJoGirl: I was surprised too! I thought it would be another smudge. I literally did not get to pee for like four hours though and couldn't drink water either.
pomelo / 5326 posts
@MrsDragon: omg I see it for sure!! This is so awesome! Rooting for you and a healthy pregnancy.
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
When it dried it went weird -- the line got really thin and pale, like an hour later. So I'm worried it's an evap. I'll POAS tomorrow morning but I'm wondering if I jumped the gun.
ALSO thanks for listening to/looking at my crazy today.
pomelo / 5326 posts
@MrsDragon: I think there are a few of us who are a little crazy when it comes to POAS. I'm keeping my fingers crossed and can't wait for your wondfo snapshot tomorrow! Hope we can be crazy together over on the Nov board.
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
@MrsDragon: hello have you seen my POAS threads?? Please. You're entitled to obsess :). Wandfos dry strangely, after awhile the lines get all light. Test in the morning and maybe with an FRER if you have one.
persimmon / 1355 posts
@MrsDragon: @winniebee: @delight: thanks, ladies. It's really hard but things are getting better. All you can really do is pick yourself up and keep going, I guess.
@MrsDragon: yay!!!
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
Today there's nothing. I looked up the batch number of Wondfos and some people get false 'positives.' So now I feel dumb and kinda sad.
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
@MrsDragon: ughhhhhh! I'm sorry. It's still pretty early though. Do you have any other brand tests?
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
I really just feel mortified and like I disappointed my husband (who says it's okay). I don't think he's ever gonna trust a test or be excited again. Bah. My period should be here by Sunday so I'm just gonna wait for it to come and accept this isn't the cycle for us. And drink a lot on vacation. And maybe buy some digital tests for next time.
Seriously I'm so sorry for spamming the boards with my crazy.
cantaloupe / 6206 posts
@MrsDragon: Nooooo and do NOT worry about your husband!! This happened to us once too. He's a little more "cautious" about positives since but it was certainly harder on me than on him What DPO are you today?
coconut / 8483 posts
@MrsDragon: you aren't crazy!!! That test looked legit positive. I'm not counting you out for this month yet!
grapefruit / 4988 posts
@MrsDragon: I'm so sorry. I feel like I went through this with the new FRERs recently. If anyone disappointed your husband, it is the company that made the tests, not you. That one definitely looked like a positive to me.
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
@JoJoGirl: 10dpo today.
Such a deflating morning! Oh well.
pear / 1767 posts
@MrsDragon: I've never had a positive at 10 dpo. If this doesn't end up being your month, at least there is vacation & cocktails in your future.
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
@Shantuck: heck yes cocktails. I'm going to bury myself in the sand and drink something with at least one umbrella in it.
I'm only a bit more disappointed than I would have been if it had been clear negatives all along, really. November is the month that I least want to give birth (though of course I would take a November baby no questions asked!) and I didn't have high hopes until that stupid test. I'm hoping the feeling of humiliation will pass by tomorrow soooo it's okay that this is not our month. Maybe it'll be next month. And I learned a valuable lesson about not trusting friggin' Wondfos and not telling my husband until there is a neon pink line.
On the upside, my husband accepted an AWESOME job yesterday that'll improve our quality of life a lot so we still have that good news to hang onto!
Anyway -- back to everyone else; I hogged the thread enough the last two days.
persimmon / 1045 posts
@MrsDragon: sorry to see this! That's a real blow good luck for next cycle though! Will be joining you after a much-needed (though unplanned) break.
Our due date is this week and I'm
Already struggling. I've heard of another good friend getting pregnant, and I will have two baby showers this weekend. Lord, give me strength!!
I so wish I could separate my sadness from happiness for them but I just can't right now!
pear / 1767 posts
@Nutella: Hugs. Due dates, pregnant friends, and baby showers are hard. You gotta feel what you feel and you'll get to a point of happiness for them eventually. Don't be hard on yourself for not feeling how you want to feel. Take good care of yourself!
grapefruit / 4988 posts
@Nutella: This week sounds tough. Take care of yourself. I am already dreading my due date coming up and it's still like 2 months away! I totally know what you mean about wanting to separate the happiness from the sadness.
persimmon / 1045 posts
@Shantuck: @MrsDragon: @catlady: thanks so much ladies. I was feeling ok last week & thought I'd be ok, but I seriously didn't expect this week to be so hard. I also met a friend who shared her MC story - one in between her two LOs - and it made me feel a bit excited & hopeful about trying again. Like it's possible! But currently jobhunting too so feeling a bit fraudy applying for jobs knowing that I am ttc!
I hope to be more supportive to everyone on here too! wishing you all lots of luck
persimmon / 1045 posts
@jaguar: thank you! I'm a moody mess but I can't even care! Good luck for your next appointment - hope this week has been a little less stressful for you.
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
Gah my body makes no sense this month. I'm spotting which means if this turns into AF I'm at a 27 day cycle with a 10 day LP. Last month was longer than usual with a 30 day cycle and a 13 day LP. I have always always been like clockwork -- until now.
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
Aaaaand today is apparently CD2. I give up on understanding my body these days.
nectarine / 2461 posts
@Shantuck: @delight: saw both of your updates on catlady's thread--so much hope/love/luck for tomorrow
pomelo / 5326 posts
@LCTBQE: ahhh thanks. I hardly slept a wink! Scan is in a couple hours so I'll update soon.
@shantuck:
pear / 1767 posts
I have an end of day ultrasound. Seemed like a good idea at the time so I didn't have to head back to work if things didn't go well. Now I just want it over with. Woke up at 4:30 am and just laid in bed and couldn't sleep.
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