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  1. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    Ohhhh I hope this one sticks.

  2. MrsKoala

    cantaloupe / 6869 posts

    @MrsDragon: Definitely a line. All of my fingers crossed for you!!

  3. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    @MrsDragon: OMG!!! I saw *nothing* on either of your other tests, how is this one so clear?!? WOW!

  4. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    @JoJoGirl: I was surprised too! I thought it would be another smudge. I literally did not get to pee for like four hours though and couldn't drink water either.

  5. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @MrsDragon: omg I see it for sure!! This is so awesome! Rooting for you and a healthy pregnancy.

  6. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    When it dried it went weird -- the line got really thin and pale, like an hour later. So I'm worried it's an evap. I'll POAS tomorrow morning but I'm wondering if I jumped the gun.

    ALSO thanks for listening to/looking at my crazy today.

  7. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @MrsDragon: I think there are a few of us who are a little crazy when it comes to POAS. I'm keeping my fingers crossed and can't wait for your wondfo snapshot tomorrow! Hope we can be crazy together over on the Nov board.

  8. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @MrsDragon: hello have you seen my POAS threads?? Please. You're entitled to obsess :). Wandfos dry strangely, after awhile the lines get all light. Test in the morning and maybe with an FRER if you have one.

  9. Zbug

    persimmon / 1355 posts

    @MrsDragon: @winniebee: @delight: thanks, ladies. It's really hard but things are getting better. All you can really do is pick yourself up and keep going, I guess.

    @MrsDragon: yay!!!

  10. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    Today there's nothing. I looked up the batch number of Wondfos and some people get false 'positives.' So now I feel dumb and kinda sad.



  11. Silva

    cantaloupe / 6017 posts

    @MrsDragon: I am so sorry. That is awful.

  12. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @MrsDragon: ughhhhhh! I'm sorry. It's still pretty early though. Do you have any other brand tests?

  13. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @MrsDragon: I'm so sorry

  14. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    @MrsDragon: oh crap. That's really upsetting.

  15. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    I really just feel mortified and like I disappointed my husband (who says it's okay). I don't think he's ever gonna trust a test or be excited again. Bah. My period should be here by Sunday so I'm just gonna wait for it to come and accept this isn't the cycle for us. And drink a lot on vacation. And maybe buy some digital tests for next time.

    Seriously I'm so sorry for spamming the boards with my crazy.

  16. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    @MrsDragon: Nooooo and do NOT worry about your husband!! This happened to us once too. He's a little more "cautious" about positives since but it was certainly harder on me than on him What DPO are you today?

  17. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    @MrsDragon: you aren't crazy!!! That test looked legit positive. I'm not counting you out for this month yet!

  18. catlady

    grapefruit / 4988 posts

    @MrsDragon: I'm so sorry. I feel like I went through this with the new FRERs recently. If anyone disappointed your husband, it is the company that made the tests, not you. That one definitely looked like a positive to me.

  19. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    @JoJoGirl: 10dpo today.

    Such a deflating morning! Oh well.

  20. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @MrsDragon: I've never had a positive at 10 dpo. If this doesn't end up being your month, at least there is vacation & cocktails in your future.

  21. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    @Shantuck: heck yes cocktails. I'm going to bury myself in the sand and drink something with at least one umbrella in it.

    I'm only a bit more disappointed than I would have been if it had been clear negatives all along, really. November is the month that I least want to give birth (though of course I would take a November baby no questions asked!) and I didn't have high hopes until that stupid test. I'm hoping the feeling of humiliation will pass by tomorrow soooo it's okay that this is not our month. Maybe it'll be next month. And I learned a valuable lesson about not trusting friggin' Wondfos and not telling my husband until there is a neon pink line.

    On the upside, my husband accepted an AWESOME job yesterday that'll improve our quality of life a lot so we still have that good news to hang onto!

    Anyway -- back to everyone else; I hogged the thread enough the last two days.

  22. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    @MrsDragon: sorry to see this! That's a real blow good luck for next cycle though! Will be joining you after a much-needed (though unplanned) break.

    Our due date is this week and I'm
    Already struggling. I've heard of another good friend getting pregnant, and I will have two baby showers this weekend. Lord, give me strength!!

    I so wish I could separate my sadness from happiness for them but I just can't right now!

  23. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @Nutella: Hugs. Due dates, pregnant friends, and baby showers are hard. You gotta feel what you feel and you'll get to a point of happiness for them eventually. Don't be hard on yourself for not feeling how you want to feel. Take good care of yourself!

  24. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    @Nutella: lots of love to you.

  25. catlady

    grapefruit / 4988 posts

    @Nutella: This week sounds tough. Take care of yourself. I am already dreading my due date coming up and it's still like 2 months away! I totally know what you mean about wanting to separate the happiness from the sadness.

  26. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    @Shantuck: @MrsDragon: @catlady: thanks so much ladies. I was feeling ok last week & thought I'd be ok, but I seriously didn't expect this week to be so hard. I also met a friend who shared her MC story - one in between her two LOs - and it made me feel a bit excited & hopeful about trying again. Like it's possible! But currently jobhunting too so feeling a bit fraudy applying for jobs knowing that I am ttc!

    I hope to be more supportive to everyone on here too! wishing you all lots of luck

  27. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @Nutella: I'm so sorry - stay strong, mama

  28. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @Nutella: *big hugs*

  29. Nutella

    persimmon / 1045 posts

    @jaguar: thank you! I'm a moody mess but I can't even care! Good luck for your next appointment - hope this week has been a little less stressful for you.

  30. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    Gah my body makes no sense this month. I'm spotting which means if this turns into AF I'm at a 27 day cycle with a 10 day LP. Last month was longer than usual with a 30 day cycle and a 13 day LP. I have always always been like clockwork -- until now.

  31. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @MrsDragon: did you test again today?

  32. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    @winniebee: negative this morning.

  33. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    @MrsDragon:

  34. mrsmacandcheese

    blogger / clementine / 985 posts

    Aaaaand today is apparently CD2. I give up on understanding my body these days.

  35. winniebee

    hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts

    Checking in to see how everything is doing!

  36. LCTBQE

    nectarine / 2461 posts

    @Shantuck: @delight: saw both of your updates on catlady's thread--so much hope/love/luck for tomorrow

  37. delight

    pomelo / 5326 posts

    @LCTBQE: ahhh thanks. I hardly slept a wink! Scan is in a couple hours so I'll update soon.
    @shantuck:

  38. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    I have an end of day ultrasound. Seemed like a good idea at the time so I didn't have to head back to work if things didn't go well. Now I just want it over with. Woke up at 4:30 am and just laid in bed and couldn't sleep.

  39. Shantuck

    pear / 1767 posts

    @delight:

  40. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    @Shantuck: @delight: good luck today girls!!!

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