We are in the market for a new car. We have two kids but would like the option to also seat a couple adults and perhaps a third kid down the road. I know a minivan is an obvious answer, but I really would prefer an SUV. I am having trouble figuring out which SUVs have good access to the third row seats when there are two car seats installed in the second row. I know the new Honda Pilot and Acura MDX have an option for captain's chairs in the second row, but it looks like they also have a console in between them that may block easy access to the third row. Has anyone investigated these options? Am I overlooking others? Googling has not provided me with answers. I would prefer not to drive a huge SUV, like a Suburban, and would also prefer a vehicle with the highest safety ratings possible. I'd appreciate any advice. We live in NYC, and going to all of the various dealers is nearly impossible so I'd like to really narrow our options before we test drive.