So our LO just turned 3 And we are expecting another baby in March, I've been thinking about what child care will look like once I go back. Right now, lo has a nanny 3 days and goes to a preschool 2 days. My plan after maternity leave is to keep LO 1 in school since she loves it; but still working out logistics of that with new baby. Im considering having the nanny drop off LO 1 at her school 1-2 days week, and still come to watch baby. I made the mistake of mentioning this to my husband tonight. I've always been "in charge" of childcare, he doesn't have to arrange coverage if he works late, I'm the one who handles it if nanny is out, etc. and I'm fine with this usually but I'm really fed up with how he expects me to handle house/childcare/work sometimes. So when I mention above set up he says no way, we're not buying car seats for nanny (1. Doesn't want to buy them 2. Worries they would take out/reinstall incorrectly 3. Worried about driving) which of course are concerns I've had too but trying to figure out how to keep older LO social interaction and not be driving around during my work hours...and so I asked him to think about it if he has any ideas. His idea is why can't I just drop off LO 1 and then take baby with me to the library to work. I said absolutely not. And he kept pushing it. And I said that was ridiculous and offensive. I wouldn't be able to get anything done! Why don't I just Drop baby off at his office for a few hours? He thinks I'm over reacting. Said I forget all babies do is sleep. Oh I'm sorry I must have missed that while you were at your office and I was trying to work with an infant. Am I being crazy on pregnancy hormones or is that totally stupid??I'm so mad!