Okay so I'm debating on even having an account on here or even Facebook. I've always been the black sheep, the outcast. Even my family rejects me.... /: idk I guess I'm just giving up cuz I just can't fit in anywhere. Even when trying to help people remain positive I'm either ignored or put down.
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Honestly, I'm a little confused by your post since it's so vague...
I'm sorry you're feeling upset... I guess if you don't want HB or Facebook, that's probably reasonable and lots of people delete their online accounts for various reasons...
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Can you elaborate why you feel that way on HB? I've looked at some of your past posts and it seems as if everyone is engaging with you, and there are other posts where you post a very quick answer without responding to a specific poster.
I'm sorry the community hasn't made you feel more welcome.
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Are you talking about IRL?
Screw fitting in.
Be you....and people will flock to you, because you're being genuine. People can tell. -
I have been quite a black sheep in my family also so I understand your feelings. Even when I try to be nice my family treats me badly. It's very weird.
Sorry you are feeling this way on here and FB. I actually never liked FB, I have an account but I actually contact my friends through e-mail mostly. I mean I think it's weird to only be able to contact someone through FB - if this happens I try to exchange e-mails right away.
Haha. But my DH does this all the time!For me I just found people that were like me and hung on to them. I also weed out people that don't make me feel good (this is a big one because it's hard to let people go but you have to think about your well being too).
What ever you decide. Good luck.
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I'm sorry you feel like you don't belong. When I started off on HB, I definitely felt like a newbie but I have gotten to know many ladies through shared experiences ( TTC and Loss boards.)
I think what you might be experiencing is more disappointment from high expectations.
I will say, I notice that you "stepped down" as a cheerleader on the TTC board because you felt like you weren't doing a great job. I have never seen someone step down as a cheerleader, as its meant to just be a very low commitment support role. It did seem like it was a reaction to other Bees not responding to you in the way you had hoped. You may have been trying a bit hard and taking it personally.
I think, perhaps, lowering your expectations of these interactions would help. Just try to have fun and participate in discussions that interest you so people get to know you.
Haha. But my DH does this all the time!Reply
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