I definitely was not the bully, but I will say that I have participated in not being friends with someone because they were different. I don't think I said anything mean to her but she might have felt bullied or teased by the group I was friends with. Oh, man, kinda sad that I did that.

I was never popular or into sports. I didn't really have a group where I belonged. I wasn't super smart. I was in the smart (but not too smart) nerdy group. Oh, since I had self esteem issues, I might have had a lot of peer pressure but I was never the ring leader of the group so maybe I wasn't actively bullying.