Ok this is going to be a little long bear with me. My husband and I aren't actually TTC yet, but we're only half heartedly TTA (the timing isn't quite right, but we're fine if it happens a little sooner).

I've been off bc (IUD) for 1 full cycle (and one really short cycle), so this is only my second full cycle off, I was charting for the first cycle and know I O'd around CD16, and then had my period 15DPO. This month I didn't really chart because I was traveling just days after my cycle started and then I got really sick, then christmas, and still sick... Well, turns out DH and I DTD and accidentally pulled to goalie on CD16 (for some reason I thought I wasn't that far into my cycle!), I felt my cervix (the only reliable symptom to track at that point, since I was sick and on all kinds of medicine) and it was high, soft and open... So I'm pretty sure I was ovulating. Then the next day my sickness peaked and I had a fever, cough and basically felt like death and went to the doctor and got put on antibiotics (not thinking about how I could be pregnant, I blame delirium) and basically had a low grade fever (around 100 degrees) for the next 5 days. Then about 6/7dpo I had some spotting (I haven't spotted during a cycle before).

Today is 9dpo and I'm planning on testing on Monday (what would be 11dpo/5 days before I expect AF). I don't have any symptoms besides sore boobs (which I get before getting AF anyway, and they aren't any worse than normal) and I've been tired, but that could also be from being from still recovering from being sick.

So I guess what I'm wondering is what do you think the odds are that I'm pregnant?? Has anyone gotten pregnant when really sick like this? Or do you think my body could have delayed ovulation and the 6dpo spotting could have been from ovulation and not implantation bleeding?

I'm really nervous that I'll be pregnant, and something will go wrong because of all the medicine I've been on and the fevers... And I haven't been taking my prenatals (I'm out and where I get them is out of the way, I've been too sick)... The timing wouldn't be great either, so in a way I'm hoping I'm not, because I really want to get healthy before getting pregnant (I need to lose weight) and timing wise for work waiting a few more months would be ideal... ugh. Thanks for reading, any feedback would be great.

(sorry for the super long post, I haven't had anyone to talk to about this so this is mostly a brain dump, I needed to get this out there!)