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What do you miss most about pre-kids life?

  1. mrsrain

    nectarine / 2115 posts

    Right now SLEEP.

    In general, time for hobbies and spur-of-the-moment outings!

  2. erinbaderin

    pomelo / 5573 posts

    Doing nothing. Being able to come home from work, watch tv for 3 hours, have a bowl of cereal, and go to bed. Also going to movies and out to a nice restaurant without 3 weeks of planning.

  3. BabyMats

    nectarine / 2031 posts

    Time! And spontaneity.I miss being able to take off for the weekend. Oh and Sleep. I miss sleep like a lot!

  4. Boogs

    hostess / papaya / 10540 posts

    Quiet. Things staying clean and not ruined.

  5. Mrs Green Grass

    pomelo / 5628 posts

    For me it's doing random things after work. Or just going to shop, have a drink, run an errand without having to plan ahead.

  6. deerylou

    pomegranate / 3003 posts

    Outside of the obvious things like extra money, date nights, and sleep, I miss being able to get lost in a book or binge watch a great TV show.

  7. Ra

    honeydew / 7586 posts

    Not being touched 24/7

  8. Periwinkle

    pear / 1879 posts

    Sleep. Glorious sleep.

    Also, somedays I miss the ability to just pick up and go somewhere. We used to do some last minute cross-country trips or even simple things like just going to the movies on a whim. While we can still do these things, it just take a lot of extra coordination and planning ahead.

  9. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    The thing I miss the *most* is being lazy on weekends. I'm a total lazy homebody and I loooooved sleeping in then maybe making a big breakfast then just doing NOTHING for a while. With a toddler I feel like we just can't be that lazy because she gets bored if we're just home for hours on end so we always plan stuff to go out and do every morning and most nights.

  10. Canoli

    persimmon / 1458 posts

    So many good responses.

    The first thing that comes to mind is spontaneity. The freedom to do whatever whenever. Life with kids feels so scheduled.

    Going out to dinner weekly with my husband! Taking the kids out to eat even if it's just to Panera is a nightmare!

  11. irene

    nectarine / 2964 posts

    Spontaneous dates, eating out, Indian cusine (something LO doesn't eat), fancy restaurants that serves creative grown up food + doesn't have a kid menu, traveling (a lot). Time for myself and not being emotionally abused by the constant tantrums lol

  12. schubr03

    apricot / 486 posts

    I miss going to the movies whenever we wanted. We used to go like once a week. Also, I am really wanting to go on a vacation with just the two of us right now and before we would just book one and not think twice about it. Now we can't do that.

  13. Truth Bombs

    grapefruit / 4321 posts

    Vacation! If we want to go on a nice trip we have to choose between bringing babies (which is basically impossible because of all the crap they require) or leaving them behind (which is a huge logistical nightmare since grandparents don't live close by and would need to be flown in to watch the kids). We do go to the beach for a week with my family every year, but I want to go to a fancy resort! It sucks that we can afford it, we have the vacation time, but we just can't make it work around the kiddos.

  14. catomd00

    grapefruit / 4418 posts

    Sleep!

  15. schubr03

    apricot / 486 posts

    @Truth Bombs: I feel the same way! I just want to go to an all-inclusive beach resort!

  16. SweetiePie

    honeydew / 7463 posts

    @erinbaderin: This exactly.
    And travel without so many logistics. Just pack, go to the airport, relax.

  17. AprilFool

    nectarine / 2591 posts

    Travel and disposable income. I miss just being able to buy whatever I wanted.

  18. Waterbaby

    coffee bean / 45 posts

    Sleep!!!!! And lazy nights/weekends with my husband.

  19. cat620

    pear / 1809 posts

    We miss the spontaneity too! And being able to stay out late and eat out whenever we feel like it. Our toddler hates sit-down restaurants, so if I don't feel like cooking, we have to get food to-go, which isn't quite the same experience as eating it at the restaurant.

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