I've been reading that they are going to ban elective early c sections and I'm pretty upset about it. You should be able to choose when to have birth and how! My reasons for elective c section should not be a matter of their concern.
I've been reading that they are going to ban elective early c sections and I'm pretty upset about it. You should be able to choose when to have birth and how! My reasons for elective c section should not be a matter of their concern.
nectarine / 2019 posts
Having a baby isn't cosmetic surgery. Therefore, not elective. If you're putting your baby at risk then it shouldn't be your choice.
coconut / 8305 posts
I'm really glad that they're implementing this! I hope that at some point "elective" isn't available at all.
I know that there's the whole aspect of being able to "choose" BUT I think that Doctors also have a responsibility to not take part in their patients taking the higher risk route if it can be avoided, considering they take oath to not harm & to always strive to benefit the health of a patient.
Here in the states we have a VERY high maternal death rate and we're around #40 in the world, meaning that it's safer for moms to have babies in FORTY other countries than it is here. Mind you we also spend more on maternal healthcare than anywhere else in the world...... so don't you think we'd be the best and not worse than 40 others?
A huge part of this rate is the fact that pulmonary embolism is one of the leading causes of maternal death and blood clots from cesareans are the highest independent risk factor for this... blood clots being prevalent with surgery but not with vaginal birth.
I am definitely for medical technology and am glad that it's available to save mommas & babies, but I'm a firm believer in their use on a "needed" basis... otherwise they do more harm than good.
nectarine / 2458 posts
@junebugmama: I feel the same way.
If you're choosing to have an elective c section for whatever reason I think you should be required to wait until your due date. It shouldn't be used as a means to have a baby early just cuz you want to.
persimmon / 1202 posts
Early c-sections come with some negative consequences that your baby may end up feeling for the rest of his life. I was an earlyish c-section (not elective), and I am hypersensitive to light, noise and touch, to the point that it interferes with my ability to drive and socialize.
Elective c-sections may be silly, in the same way gauged earrings are silly - not generally harmful, but not something I would choose. The risk to the baby isn't significantly higher. EARLY elective c-sections, however, demonstrate a lack of understanding on the effect it could have on the child.
kiwi / 534 posts
If my doctor is willing and says the baby will be fine than it really is my choice since I'm the vessel for my baby. I personally don't want my baby born after a certain date because at week 39 there is a holiday and I don't want her to have to share a birthday for the rest of her life on or near a holiday. Also my husband has off on certain weeks only and we want him home to spend time with the baby and if we do that after 39 weeks he won't be home. My doctor has said that it will be fine so I don't think I'm going to second guess him.
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
@ecogirl: I think there are two separate issues.
First, there is significant evidence that early c-sections can impact babies for their lifetime. This is a growing concern, because one in three sections in the US are now done before 39 weeks. That's a lot of babies who are impacted by these decisions.
Second, there is evidence that early c-sections end up creating a lot of costly complications, which drive up costs for the whole healthcare system. Because those costs are often born by society as a whole, the ban is a way for society as a whole to push back against these elective decisions.
Given the impact on babies and the cost on society, I think it's a healthy thing that doctors are starting to push back against this huge trend.
Also, on a personal note, Olive was born five weeks early and so we got to see firsthand just how valuable those last few weeks can be to the development of a baby's body. Olive couldn't regulate her body temperature and her lungs were also underdeveloped for quite some time. It was all very scary.
pear / 1852 posts
I hope this doesn't turn into a nasty debate.
I just want to say that unless a c-section is medically necessary, we should let nature take its course, regardless of convenience for other people and holidays.
I was born on Canadian Thanksgiving, and have a good friend born on Halloween, and neither of us felt like we had to "share" the day. You get used to it, and plan around it either by themed birthdays, or celebrating early, or many other possibilities. If the day you want to avoid is Christmas for example, or another major holiday, a week early won't make a bit of difference as it will still be in the season.
kiwi / 534 posts
How scary Mr. Bee! I'm glad she's well now. Like I said my doctor is enthusiastic that we are fine and that this c section is good and he is comfortable with it.
Happy birthday MrsD I'm glad you don't mind it but I was born on a holiday and I detest it so I'm happy to have the opportunity with my doctors blessing to have the elective c section a bit early.
olive / 52 posts
I think c-sections are a wonderful resource to those who are truly in need of them.
That said, I'm of the opinion that c-sections for reasons of life scheduling, maternal fear, or convenience are more than likely not decisions that are made in the best interest of the baby's development. Yes, many times the baby is fine, all is good, etc. I was one of those babies who turned out fine. My brother was an elective section at 40 weeks and ended up being slightly premature (my mom's pregnancies run long) and while we can't make a direct correlation, he's had developmental and mental health issues to struggle with his entire life.
I think if more people were responsible with c-sections then there would be no need for a ban... but they aren't. I live in Florida, which has the highest c-section rate in the U.S., and March of Dimes is putting up billboards all over the place begging women to let their healthy pregnancies reach full-term before inducing labor or having a c-section, in order to prevent bad outcomes and struggles for less-than-40-week babies. It's epidemic.
ecogirl: I just want to add that I'm not trying to judge your personal decision. I made the decision to have an induction because of a plane ticket issue with my mom.. not my favorite decision, but I am happy that she was there for my labor and the baby's first week of life rather than waiting for me to go into labor and then go home just a couple days later, or miss it altogether! Have you thought about perhaps an induction, rather than a section? It's also not too terrible to share a birthday week with a major holiday -- my sister-in-law's bday is December 20th and she milks her "birthday week" for all it's worth to make sure we don't roll it into Christmas.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
While I understand your reasoning in your individual case, I think there are probably a lot of risky c-sections being done and they need to regulate this.
pear / 1664 posts
I agree with ecogirl. And I all around don't like bans that tell me how to live.
kiwi / 534 posts
Thank you bykes I will discuss induction with him. That's funny about your sil.
pear / 1728 posts
As someone who had an elective c-section (which, in the end, turned out to be medically necessary)....I agree with the concept. I had my section on my due date. Even if my doctor had offered to bring me in early (he didn't) I wouldn't have. There is a reason the body needs about 40 weeks for gestation. I agree that we should be able to choose HOW we want To bring our babies into the world. I don't want bans telling me how to live. But I agree with waiting since due dates can be off by a week or so
cherry / 242 posts
As a preemie mom, I say this with experience: every week matters. Having a c-section at 39 weeks is a very different issue than having a c-section at 36 weeks though. I don't necessarily agree with scheduling a c-section at 39 weeks simply because it's convenient. I understand why people do it, so I'm not judging, but to me, life is rarely convenient, children and childbirth definitely aren't.
pear / 1639 posts
I don't think you should be able to choose when you get to have your baby. Let nature run its course, and when your baby is ready to make its entrance into the world, it will. I do understand having a C-Section for medical reasons, but I don't think that you should be able to be like: well, it works better for our schedule just to have a c-section on this day, so that is what we will do.
pomelo / 5866 posts
At first, I was so bummed when I found out I had to have a c-section because my baby was breech then transverse. Then I was suddenly ok with it and was looking at all the positives but then the baby turned the right way and then the doc said no c-section. Then I was lamenting b/c I really wanted one by then (labor-avoidance-anxiety.) Now that it's all over, I'm glad I had the opportunity and privilege to give birth without a c-section. So I am glad there is the doctor's discretion as to what is medically necessary, especially because health care insurance exists to cover medically necessary procedures. Heck, I'm still upset that insurance doesn't completely cover Lasik eye corrective surgery.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
Honestly, the only thing I stressed about in giving birth in December was the fact that in Europe, the dates are usually written Day/Month/Year while in the US the dates are written Month/Day/Year. I've heard lots of horror stories with the birthdates getting confused and issues with insurance. My son was due on Dec. 10, I was fine with him coming any time from the 12th on to avoid date confusion. In the end, he was born on the 16th.
I never stressed about him having a birthday on a holiday, he's already got his birthday and Christmas in the same month.
coffee bean / 41 posts
I had to have an "elective" c-section. I was almost two weeks past my due date and S was not coming out anytime soon. The doctor said she "could" induce me but there was a very high chance I would end up in a c-section anyway so I got one. I think if they take this away I would never have that option and might end up with a emergency c-section because I am just not built for large babies. I want to try for vaginal the net time around but what if life doesn't work out that way?
pineapple / 12526 posts
@Iiamsn01: See though, that's not a truly elective c-section. You were overdue and would have likely had one anyway. The elective c-sections that are being banned are ones before 39 weeks, so it's a separate issue from the one you are talking about. They are not banning c-sections altogether or anything.
Personally, I agree with it. When your personal choice effects your baby, I think it's time for the doctor to step in and say no. A baby has a lot of important development crammed into those last few weeks and coming early or before they are ready can be harmful for life.
kiwi / 686 posts
I think it's great! This isn't something women should be able to choose, frankly. It could greatly affect the baby's well-being, all for a little convenience. It's really wrong.
Obviously they are still allowing early c-sections for women that need them for medical reasons. Just not "just for fun". I completely agree with the ban.
kiwi / 534 posts
Interesting opinions. A few people that mentioned the doctor stepping in and saying no or that elective c section is 'just for fun' (doubt they've given birth yet ) have to realize that if a medical doctor says it is fine then that is enough for me. Or any woman trusting the doctor. I'm sorry but I'll trust a doctor over strangers on the internets anyday. Wouldn't you? I know he has our best interests at heart and also understands the personal issues of his patients.
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
I usually do a lot of research, in addition to talking to my doctor and medical professionals. I've found that the best doctors are able to explain why they make a recommendation, and help inform you as a patient so you can be a part of the decision. We love and trust our doctor, and he is great about citing literature when we ask questions.
Personally, I'm also a big fan of strangers on the internets. At least, when it comes to issues that can be collaboratively researched and discussed. But it's not for everyone.
Best of luck to you and your baby!
coconut / 8305 posts
@ecogirl: I had an "emergency" cesarean as a result of the other interventions they had done with my first son in trusting my doctor, but was not made aware of many of the risks AND of the things that I would be now dealing with in my current pregnancy because of the cesarean.
As for the early cesareans it definitely has greater negative effects on baby.... BUT with looking at the trends & statistics it's clear that cesareans in general have greater negative effects on momma than vaginal deliveries... And I know for myself, that me being around and well is just as important as baby getting all the time to develop as they need.
You can check out this site for some of the risks of cesarean vs. vaginal. The site covers many different birthing options so I think it's a well rounded site and that way the most well informed decision can be made.... I know atleast in my case my doctor wasn't chopping at the bit to tell me that the cesarean would effect my future pregnancies or things like that... good to know all of those things up front. =)
kiwi / 534 posts
Yes I am a researchaholic too! I love my doctor and trust him totally. I was reacting to those posters saying that it's selfish or something terrible and a doctor should step in and stop the decision when it's the doctor helping to make the decision in the first place. Not sure if that made sense.
Thank you!
persimmon / 1255 posts
I'm not opposed to elective c-sections, just EARLY (before 39 weeks) elective c-sections since there's still so much development that goes on in those last few weeks.
BTW, my husband's birthday is on Dec 26th and while it kinda sucked as a kid, he loves it now cause he can take the whole week off and enjoy it with family.
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
@ecogirl: I love and trust my doctor too... but not totally! I've found that many doctors don't keep up to date on the latest scientific research. Understandable, since the job of a doctor is very hard and with long hours!
pineapple / 12526 posts
@ecogirl: I trust my doctor too, but I trust my instincts more. *shrug* It's a personal decision and I do honestly believe that some women endanger their children by acting selfishly in regards to this. I am not saying that ALL women do, I am saying that there are definitely some that do.
I know a girl who started begging the doctor to strip her membranes at 34 weeks. 34 WEEKS. She had no medical reason for wanting it done, the baby was still safely cooking... she was just tired of being pregnant. THAT is what I mean by selfish. That poor baby could have been very premature if the doctor involved hadn't put her foot down.
kiwi / 534 posts
Scary story Zippylef! That is the type of situation where the doctor assessed the situation and said no because there was a health risk and I think that is good. I do believe that people were hinting that I am selfish though with their responses. I don't really care that they think that but I did want to address that by saying my doctor knows best for me and my family and I chose him from the finest due to his great reputation. I trust him and my instincts as well. I think this ban is terrible still because I feel that any decent doctor will not endanger lives and open themselves to malpractice suits willingly. I do understand peoples concern about it but for me it is too much legislation I guess.
pineapple / 12526 posts
@ecogirl: You did read that they are banning them before 39 weeks and not banning them altogether, right? AND it's not legislation, it's the hospitals banning it themselves. You can still choose an elective c-section, you just have to wait until your due date now. How is that not letting women choose how they want to birth? You still have a choice.
kiwi / 534 posts
For my situation it will be before 39 weeks and my doctor feels totally comfortable and so do I. My other was born the same way but not because I was bored of being pregnant or anything. Due dates are often wrong and with my busy husband I know exactly when we've had sex every time He travels oversees all of the time for business so our time together is sparse. I realize many women don't know exactly when they have gotten pregnant but I surely do each time As I said, my doctor is good with it and has a stellar reputation (as he should with the money we're paying) and I know he wouldn't want to sully that.
kiwi / 686 posts
@zippylef: Exactly.
If you want to have an elective c-section, that's your own business. But having one before 39 weeks when there is no medical reason for it, is wrong! Why would you risk your baby's health for convenience or because you're "tired of being pregnant"?
If you can't wait until your baby is ready, then maybe you have adopted or tried surrogacy. Pregnancy is not about your comfort, it's about the health of your baby. Reserve your "right to choose" between vaginal or c-section, just wait until your baby is ready for the world. If you love your baby which I'm sure you do, then you want what's best for it. And waiting until it's ready to be born is certainly what's best for it.
kiwi / 686 posts
I really don't mean to be rude, I just don't understand the reasoning. Unless there is a medical reason to bring your child into the world before it's due, why would you risk the chance of hurting your child? To me, it really seems to simply be about convenience, which is incredibly selfish. Correct me if I'm wrong, and there is a better reason for rushing your baby.
kiwi / 534 posts
@MH.Abroad I see that you feel strongly about it but I will trust my doctor as I said and will have my c section before 39 weeks as requested. My baby will be fine as my last one was and as my doctor has assured me this one will be too. My baby will be ready or fully cooked as I saw someone here call it
kiwi / 686 posts
@ecogirl: I'm very sorry if that felt like a personal attack, it wasn't meant to be.
You did ask what people thought, and I felt like it was an important issue that I needed to pipe up on.
I just feel like your body and your baby knows when it's ready, and doctors (while generally correct and trustworthy) still have a substantial margin of error. Doctors make mistakes, and babies face the consequences. I'd just rather not take the risk.
A baby I know was born via elective c-section at 38 weeks after the doctor insisted it would be fine. His lungs were underdeveloped, and he had issues with his blood count that required a transfusion. He had to stay in the hospital for quite some time and was in high danger of infection.
While you obviously can't base a decision on ONE story, this isn't just one story. It's medical fact, it's proven science that every week counts.
Of course everything may be fine and perfect, but your chances of a perfect ending are higher the longer you wait. So why NOT wait?
pear / 1728 posts
This proposed ban is also on inductions before 39 weeks. Not just elective c's. Same rationale though.
kiwi / 534 posts
@MHAbroad no need to apologize if you feel strongly about something. Whether or not someone calls me selfish isn't offensive to me unless I have a relationship with the person. I respect different opinions
grapefruit / 4056 posts
I work in NICU, and in my hospital that means I attend c-section deliveries. There is a huge difference in the babies born by c-section at 38 vs 40 weeks, and an even bigger difference between babies born without labour, and those who experience labour.
I usually feel terribly bad for babies who are born via scheduled section who don't experience labour, because they almost always come out so stunned and stressed looking. Labour tells the baby to prepare for something to happen, and causes the baby to release hormones to assist that transition, and without experiencing labour they have a way more difficult time transitioning to life in the world outside the uterus.
Our hospital has banned scheduled c-section until 38 weeks, unless medically indicated (ie an issue with mom or baby that necessitates birth before 38 weeks to achieve the best outcome). It was a great decision by the hospital, because though 36 weeks and up is technically "term" you do see a lot more of those 36/37 weekers end up with longer stays or re-admission to the hospital due to failure to thrive/feeding issues/jaundice.
kiwi / 686 posts
@MsMini: Thanks for your insight! It's good to hear from someone who has experienced it firsthand.
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