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My mom and I don't fight.. We do go days without talking just because she's busy though ..
Call your mom and make up with her!

A few hours...it was horrible, I will never forget that day.

we argue all the time because we both have strong personalities but we never stop talking, we just get over it and move on.

We haven't been in a fight since I was in high school, and even those were just stupid, "I don't wanna do my chores" fights. We don't have anything to fight about now.

We actually got in our worst fight ever this summer. I refused to speak to her from from the end of June until after my birthday in the beginning of August, so around 6 weeks. It was awful, and she missed a big portion of my pregnancy which is even more depressing. We're okay now.

My mom & I haven't argued since high school. We've gone a couple weeks without speaking only when traveling. My grandmother on the other hand has not spoken to me in 21 months after a disagreement. Ouch! Family can really hurt when they withhold when you feel like you need them. Hope you guys are able to clear things up soon! Hugs!

@autumnlove: Me too. My dad was also involved, so I didn't speak to either of my parents during that entire period.

Couple of weeks. My mom is the silent treatment type. Has only happened a few times though, the last time was right after I got engaged and we were fighting over wedding stuff.

Not long. One of us will get over it really quickly. The longest I ever went without talking to her was two weeks when I couldn't tell her I was pregnant. I think that told her I was since I wouldn't call her!!

We don't really fight either. We are both people pleasers anyway so tend to skirt around or avoid topics that I know would be issues. We don't talk every day anyway though, so sometimes when we are busy we can go a couple of weeks without talking.

The worst was when I moved in with DH, then my boyfriend. I was afraid of telling my parents because I knew they would disapprove, but then I was mad at them for being disapproving of my adult decision, so I didn't feel like talking to them and hiding things (even though I never gave them the chance to be normal anyway). Turns out they were fine with it anyway

I'm pretty lucky in the mom department. I can't remember ever fighting with her (except over cleaning or something stupid). So I don't think I've ever purposefully not spoken to her.

Probably a little less then a week. She was upset about me being with my ex..... and she was so right!

@mrbee: were you living in the same house?

We usually move on quickly but then fight again.

I've never not spoke to my mother for any length of time on purpose. Sometimes we got a week without talking just because of work and life and stuff.

We get a bit snippy sometimes, but we've never stopped talking. We're pretty close.

We didn't talk for eight months before my wedding (almost didn't invite her) because she felt the need to dictate to me where I should live in the city and accost me like a child anytime I disagreed with her. I couldn't take it anymore and needed the space for my mental health.

We also didn't talk for a couple of months after I told her I was pregnant because her response (before hanging up the phone abruptly) was, "Oh."

not more then a few hours, we hardly ever fought and spent almost everyday together and talked on the phone atleast once a day.