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Me 40%
Him 60%

I want to say 50/50. We both work 40++ outside of the home. I do 100% of baths, dinner feeding (solids), and putting LO to bed; but DH cooks dinner while I do bathtime and takes LO and gets her dressed in the am because I am *not* a morning person. He takes her downstairs on the weekends and let's me sleep as long as I like; so frankly, I'm fine doing whatever else! Even if I do more child duties in the pm, DH does other household necessary duties, so I think it evens out to 50/50 across the board.

I'd say 60% me and 40% DH... some days DH will take on more than 40%. I give most of the baths, cook all the meals, and I feed LO at night. DH is really great at playing with LO and keeping him entertained. We both work outside of home full time.

Probably 90/10. I BF and SAH while DH works 50 hour weeks + has a lot of responsibilities through our church at the moment.

He changes the occasional diaper, does evening wake ups (which are only giving a dummy and patting LOs back), hangs out while I cook dinner and does things for me while I'm occupied (fetching water for me, towels at bath time, etc.)

80/20 me/dh? I SAH so that's why.. If I worked it would probably be around 50/50 because I am utterly insistent that he helps out. Call it nagging but he'll just have to deal with that, she's his responsibility too. And he likes to be hands on so usually I don't have to say much. It's more the background things (cleaning bottles, packing diaper bag, making baby food, etc) that he has nothing to do with, but he and dd have a great relationship so far.

Probably 45/55 with DH getting the 60. He leaves before she gets up, so I do the 3-5 hours before daycare. He picks her up from daycare at gets 3-4 hours alone with her awake. When I get home, I feed her solids while we eat. We do her bath together, and then he does the final bottle and puts her to bed. He cleans the bottles while I do the pumping. If she wakes during the night, he feeds her.

Probably 60% DH / 40% me.

85/15 with me being 85. We both work and have flexible schedules, but I always do middle of the night wakings, mornings and evenings. I feel like I'm being generous with the 15 (only because he makes his food)

@Anagram: Sorry doll. I'm a WOHM, I BF at night/early mornings/weekends, and the ratio is still 90% me and 10% DH. Basically, unless I ask him to feed her (puree), or hold/play with her so that I can go to the bathroom/ shower, etc., it all falls to me. Not that he doesn't want to help, but . . . for example, when I get up at 5:30-6:00 on the weekends (her usual wakeup time), he hasn't ever volunteered to let me sleep in while he watches her, I do bedtime, I prep her bottles for the day, etc. On the other hand, every once in a while he will come in and say something silly like "gimme mah babeh!" and just take her away for a while. So, maybe I was a bit unfair and should say 85/15.

80/20 but only b/c i EBF.

@sera_87: your DH's response just made me LOL. It's so funny how much credit they want for things moms regularly do. My DH does help a lot but certain things he won't do unless explicitly asked, and that's annoying.

When my husband is working - 70/30

When he's not working - 50/50

His schedule just doesn't afford him the opportunity to pick up more slack since he's simply not around. When he's home, he's very very hands on. Regardless, he always gives T his nightly bath and feeds him dinner/plays with him after work and before bed. I usually am cleaning up or prepping our meal during that time.