We give LO a bath, put her pj's on, brush her hair, and then we give her a sippy of milk. We've gotten into the routine of holding her on our laps on the glider while giving her the milk and she doesn't even hold onto the sippy, we pretty much feed it to her like it's a bottle. LO is 19 months old. And then we brush her teeth, say night night, love you, and put her in her crib.

Should we make her hold onto her own sippy? Is she too old for that now? It's so relaxing for all of us (DH and I switch out bed time and do every other night and we both love the cuddle time) but we don't want to be spoiling her.