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oh my gosh that's so pathetic. I think people need to just mind their own beeswax!

thankfully no one has asked me about another one - lo is only 6.5 mos!! Whenever it comes up I just say it's not happening for a looong time and people laugh.

Wow!

No comments yet! LO is 13 months old, and people do ask. They started asking when she was still in my belly.... but I always just make up an excuse.

Haha. No real comments except people did ask us when we were going to have another before I was pregnant.

@autumnlove: For the record, I like your child spacing and would like to have mine similarly close (maybe a few months further so there wont be too many in college at the same time if we have 3-4 kids). But I'm only 16 weeks with the first, so much could change.

My two boys are 1 month shy of being 3 years apart so I get the "oh, that's a perfect age difference" comment A LOT. So far, they are right!

@erwoo: @NYCaliMama: so happy to hear that you feel 3 years apart is a good age gap!! My ideal spacing would be right around 3 years apart...but my husband is leaning towards 2 years. I want #1 to be out of diapers and at an age where she can communicate better...and hopefully be kind of independent so i can focus on #2

Wow those comments are so rude. I haven't had any negative comments. DS and LO will have a 4 year age gap.

Holy crap... people suck.

I hate when people ask if twins r in the family. No, they r not, I had fertility problems.

I get wow that's a lot of kids.
You have your hands full.
I hope your baby machine is turned off for awhile.
Wow and I thought two kids was tough they must drive you crazy.

I am used to it. I get stares all the time

Oh, wow. I can't believe people.

I'm not even pregnant w LO #2 yet and people think it's okay to ask/tell me when to have my second.
"Don't wait to long, you don't want to get out of diapers and start back up again"
"If you wait to long you won't get any quality time with #2".......

I can't believe how many people think it's okay to ask these sorts of questions or comment on others life decisions. That would be like me walking up to a friend and saying, wow, you bought another car, that's pretty expensive for someone in your tax bracket isn't it?

@pastemoo: haha all good. i hate it, but will just answer, hmmm, not that i know of. lol.

People have a comment no matter what! If you waited longer, someone would have something to say about that, too!