a friend of DH's (not a super close friend) and his baby mama are having a baby shower this weekend & the friend asked DH to go (we didn't get an invitation, he invited him in person). i have no desire to go since i haven't met either of them, DH hasn't met the baby mama either, but DH feels like he should go for a little while at least. i asked him where they were registered since i couldn't find it online and he asked the friend who said, 'nah man, just show up.'

so what would you do? i feel weird sending him empty handed, thoughts? what would you send?