So I think i have pretty much decided on the Becco because of the outward facing option. I think it's nice to have and there will always be pros and cons to both the Ergo and the Becco. It seems that dilemma comes from the fact that there are different pros to each, rather than the "cons" being an issue. Everyone seems to be happy with whichever carrier they have.
BUT i think a few people have mentioned they like their Ergo because their DH can use it too? Does this mean the Becco's are not good for men to use? Does anyone's DH have a preference and why? My DH currently uses the Bjorn and has no issue with it...so I want him to be able to use whichever new carrier I buy.
ETA: My DH is not overly huge, He is 5"8, about 170 lbs.