I was just on a day trip with a friend and her three month old son. The drive was about an hour and a half and on the way there both the babies slept (at 6 am). On the way home her son started crying. He had just been fed and changed, he just didn't want to be in his carseat.
She pulled over every 15 minutes just to pick him up.
As soon as she'd pull him out of his seat he'd be fine, as soon as she put him down again he'd cry.
She's REALLY into babywearing and stuff so she RARELY puts him down. He's actually in a carrier for both of his normal naps. They cosleep 100%. She admitted he was only crying because he wanted snuggles, and part of me thinks if she wasn't holding him ALL day EVERY day he wouldn't be that against being in the car for an hour.
I don't think I would have been bothered if she didnt keep stopping just to snuggle him...am I crazy? Lol
And honestly, at what point is it considered spoiling? I know "they" say you can't spoil a newborn....but when can it be considered spoiling?