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I think I'd feel weird for myself around two. Wouldn't care much about what other people do though.
I haven't nursed past fifteen months and at that point it was as wake up and before bed so not much NIP at all.

5? I wouldn't think twice seeing a 2/3 year old nursing, but 5 might be strange.

Can I agree with everyone here so far? Because I also don't NIP as much past one but it's because of nursing timing, and I think it's personal, and I would find 5 bizarre but 2/3 wouldn't bat an eye, and it's not too old if you're comfortable...

I don't really care personally. Whatever you want to do, go for it! Doesn't impact me at all. I didn't NIP much past a year, but I would have if DD wanted to at the time.

Every once in a blue moon, like on a trip or for a booboo, I've nursed my almost 3 year old in public. He's old enough that he can usually wait, and actually only nurses once a day or so at this point. I'd love to see more older/bigger kids nursing, just so I don't feel like the last one left, haha!

I still nurse my 2 year olds in public if we have to (especially if I'm hoping they'll fall asleep while out and about or I'm trying to curb a melt down) but around 18-20 months I started limiting it some. Like if we're going to story time for an hour and one of them asks to nurse, I'll ask them to wait until we get home and they usually don't have a problem with that. They are huge comfort nursers, so I still nurse a lot in front of friends and family. I have no qualms about that - even tandem nursing them if I have to, which tends to be a lot more revealing.

I, personally, think as long as a child breastfeeds, it's okay to do it in public. Even if that's well past the age most of society deems appropriate.

Age 2/3

ETA I would get a bit frustrated with my 18 month old when we would go fun places and then she would hust want to sit and nurse. That's when we put it to at home only or if she was injured or tired or something extreme.

The only time it was out of place to me was at a restaurant with the mom on a bar stool with a very large child with a full head of hair. That's the only time I've noticed because the kid looked huge and awkward on a stool. They could have been 2 or 4. But the kid was well over 2ft tall.

Personally I would have been ok for myself until 2ish, but DD weaned by 13 mo. I'm glad I don't have to worry about it.

In answer to your question I think 3ish?

Around 1.5 for me.

I try to put it off these days at 16 months (and he's big so probably looks older) but it definitely depends on location. Like when he was younger I would do it discreetly basically anywhere. Now, I try to put him off or go find a quiet place. Interestingly, my husband who is very supportive of my son continuing to breastfeed while oblivious of any breastfeeding controversy commented recently (later just to me) that our friend's two year old looked a little strange nursing in public when we were at a casual outdoor winery. Weird to me that he even noticed since this kid is probably 10 lbs lighter and barely taller than our son! I ask him from time to time what he thinks about when I should wean (less for advice and more for curiosity sake) and he never had 2 cents to add.

@junebugsmama: we are definitely no where close to morning and night- and I'm completely fine with that right now. We have done just sleep times only a handful of times and they have either been because I wasn't with her most of the time or we have been out all day and she's been too busy.

I stopped after around 20 months although she continued to nurse until she was 3. But I guess it wasn't out of weirdness but more just opportunity/frequency.

I don't really care, but I guess if I'm being honest I think like a 4 or 5 year old BF seems a little "old" for it - - but like I said, I also really don't care. Whatever works for mom/baby-kid.

I am nursing in public a lot less often these days simply because DD a) doesn't need/want to nurse nearly as many times per day as she used to, and b) she's developed a habit of wanting to switch from side to side a million times, like a little pendulum, so that makes it hard in public anyway.

To answer the question in general though, I don't think there's any age that's too old. My DD is 13 months.

After weaning ... If a kid breastfeeds, who cares? It's food/nourishment/comfort.

@catlady: Hahahah, love that you reference GoT

I don't know, since I had to wean DD by 9 months not by choice. I didn't NIP much though b/c she was very fidgety and we both get super hot under a cover, etc.

If all the stars aligned, I probably still won't do it past 1-1.5 years, since that means I always have to wear something nursing friendly, or make sure to have my nursing cover, etc.

I only nursed my 3+yo once or twice in public, I felt very uncomfortable, and she could understand limits. But I had no problem nursing her in public under 3. I don't mind seeing any child bf in public, it was my own hang up about being judged.

@catlady: hahahaah spot on with the GoT reference.

I guess my answer to this is "whenever you are comfortable with" and for me, that was probably around a year? My LO just started being too distracted, large and wild for me to nurse in public. I had a larger chest when I was nursing and him popping off made me uncomfortable and then he could run away.... so it would be a disaster!