My family (parents and older brother) always resort to me having to plan family dinners and birthday celebrations. My parents will call me, run ideas by me then tell me to call my brother to run it by him. Then I run it by my brother, he tells me his thoughts and then gets me to call my parents back. Then when plans get changed, they all call me and make me figure everything out! Then they tell ME to call the resto to make reservations! It drives me up the wall!

We're in the midst of trying to organize a dinner for my parents' birthdays (mom and dad are both in September) but no one can seem to agree on a date. The only date that works for ALL is 5 days before I'm due! Uh, hello!?!?!?!?

Anyone else the one in charge of plans-making? Anyone else losing their minds with indecisiveness?