And I'm just like "..." lol. There is really no point to this post. And it's probably my raging first pp period speaking
And I'm just like "..." lol. There is really no point to this post. And it's probably my raging first pp period speaking
bananas / 9899 posts
It annoys me more when someone asks for advice, but when you try giving some they just fight you about how it's not going to work for whatever reason. Seriously, why did you even ask then?
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I do this with my husband, sometimes...sometimes I just need to hear someone else's opinion to solidify my own decision.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
I feel like it's an opinion not a command, but it does irk me. I think the worst is they already have their mind made up, you disagree and they fight you on it, then WHY ASK! I'm not going to agree with you just to agree if you ask fro an honest opinion. My BFF doesthis, and then it never fails "man I should have done it the other way"
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@LuLu Mom: Yeah... I mean they obviously can do whatever they want. But when I put so much thought/research into an answer for you it's just annoying to see them literally turn around and do the exact opposite!
pomelo / 5573 posts
My husband does this to me all the time, usually about his outfit. "What do you think about this shirt with these pants?" "I think you look nice!" "....I think I'm going to change." I don't know why I bother answering.
cantaloupe / 6634 posts
Haha, I do this about items on a menu! I ask the waiter, "would you recommend item A or B?" "Item B is my personal fav..." "you know what? I'll go with item C. " It drives my husband batty
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
@simplyfelicity: hahahaha! now that I think about it, I think I do it to DH too when we eat out lol.
coconut / 8861 posts
@lovehoneybee: I do this to my husband too. We have heated discussions about this frequently.
papaya / 10343 posts
lol its a little annoying but what do i care what they decide to do Sometimes I think people don't realize what they really want until someone tells them to do the opposite and they are like nooooo. In which case that person WAS actually helpful in making up the person's mind, just not in the way they'd hoped.
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