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Probably 5 or 6 months after we broke up, he IMd me on google chat.

oddly enough, today. well, i sent him a msg today, haven't heard back yet. i kept the cat when i asked him to move out and the cat is very ill, i felt like he should have an opportunity to say goodbye if he wants, so i sent him a msg & let him know & that if he wanted to, BFF could let him in my place & he could have a moment with the cat without having to see me or mr. bird.

Years! I am FB friends with a few of them but we don't communicate really...

Long time. I think the last time I spoke to a REAL ex (like, someone I dated more than just 1-2 dates) was the first year I dated DH. I was happily engaged and had totally moved on, but the ex was married (unhappily, I gathered) which made our communication just seem.....not cool. Like, my boyfriend knew, but I was pretty sure the ex's wife didn't know.

So I cut it off.

I sent an ex a fb message at some point this year (maybe over the summer?) to congratulate him on his engagement, but he didn't respond. Other than that, I don't know! I bumped into my high school boyfriend in our hometown about 4 years ago, that was probably the last time. Def the last time in person, and the last time that was more personal than a fb happy birthday message, but those barely count

Years. I am very good friends with one of DH's exes though. She was in our wedding.

Years. Like before I was engaged.

My hs ex. Brief "relationship" we were more friends than anything esp after it was over. We chatted on gchat a few wks ago. Before that....it'd been years

Comments on FB messages and Christmas cards recently, but no recent phone contact.

I saw my HS boyfriend at a wedding on NYE. It was the first time we had seen or talked to each other in nearly a year and a half. I got to talk to his new wife, too. We are now all FB friends!

Last week! We text every now and then

No exes!

A couple weeks ago, one of them sent me a message on fb telling me congratulations on the birth of ds.

I'm not friends with any of my serious exes. However, my first bf and I are FB friends, but we were so young, he doesn't count. My long time HS bf tried adding me on FB a few years back, but I don't think it's appropriate, so I added his wife instead An old college fling tried getting ahold of me last year (we were friends before) and we emailed a little to catch up, but nothing more. A trainwreck of a Jr. HS bf tried adding me not too long ago and there's no way I even want to associate with that guy! Blocked!

4.5 yrs ago at a friends wedding, hs boyfriend. Seems silly to even call him an ex now, but we dated for most of high school and were super close after we broke up. I know most of basics of what he's up to these days from other friends. I have moments where I'd love to catch up w/ him, but really don't care, lol.

I don't, unless I run into them and have no out. Then it's really light and quick. I've gotten a few voicemails over the years but I don't call back.

The month after we broke up...so like 7 or 8 years ago?

I couldn't even tell you. It's been aaages, thank god. I only have one ex that I'd be comfortable talking to, but I don't.

@psw27: Ugh, my most recent ex (one that I had a terrible relationship with) tried to add me on linkedin! I had to LOL at it, because there was no way in heck I'd ever want to be connected with him on a professional level, like, ever.

A couple weeks ago at work, one called for a work related question. (yes we work for the same company but very rarely have to interact & work in different buildings.)

I have another ex that I'm friendly with & we email (also work together) about our families/kids. Very platonic & DH is aware and fine with it, he's even met him and his wife.