DH wanted to take our LO to an event at his school tonight. Many of his co-workers have not met her and he wants to show her off (proud daddy!) However, this would mean that they would be home between 8:30 & 9 p.m. I try to have LO in bed at 8 (8:30 the latest). She would also need to eat dinner during that time.

We went back and forth and I won because I'm the one that does bedtime, if she's out that means it's going to take longer to fall asleep, which then will mean her napping tomorrow with the nanny would be messed up. I feel like the bad guy but I'm thinking about her and he's thinking about showing her off like a trophy! Geez.

DH rarely takes into account her schedule (on days I have to work late LO is usually up and way behind schedule because DH never sticks to it...and then she takes forever to go to bed!) and feels like I'm being too strict.

If you and your significant other disagree on something, does someone usually win? Who is it? Or do you keep discussing until you can come to some kind of agreement/truce?