According to relationship expert George Costanza, every couple has one person who has the upper hand. This person controls the power dynamic, and can make most of the important decisions should they want to.
Do you think that's true? If so, who has more hand: you or your SO?
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
I think when it come down to it I have more "hand" but I try not to abuse my power!
honeydew / 7667 posts
I have more hand on a lifestyle/living/jobs perspective because I'm the breadwinner. Dh makes a nice earning too but if he got a wonderful job offer someplace else I'd put the kibosh on it because I'm happy working where I am.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Me because I handle the finances and am more level headed abotu big purchases.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
Honestly I think we are pretty even in terms of "power". But he's more stubborn so he probably wins more arguments.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
I think we're about equal, I make a lot of decisions but if DH vetoed them, that's that.
coconut / 8498 posts
DH. He's the leader of the household. Though, when it comes down to it, he would probably do whatever makes LO and me happy as long as it wouldn't ruin the family 
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