I'm around more and DS1 doesn't take my mom as seriously as far as discipline (she's his primary caretaker), so I end up being the "bad cop," a lot.

DH is very much like me in the discipline area, but at the same time he isn't around as much; so he has more patience to spare during the week which also defaults to me being "bad cop."

I don't mind disciplining, but sometimes it makes me sad that all DS ever hears from is what he shouldn't be doing!