The other thread about parents made me wonder, who was there in the room when you gave birth? Like, the minute you pushed the baby out, not earlier in labor etc.
I had DH, 2 doulas, a midwife, 2 nurses, my OB, and a resident. Phew! We had said no medical students and the hospital respected that, but there ended up being a village in there and I loved it! Everyone got along really well and at the risk of sounding like a hippie, I loved all that female energy surrounding me at that moment. My DH (and later, baby ) were the only guys in the room!