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WHY do you live where you live?

  • poll: Why do you live where you live?
    Grew up here : (60 votes)
    24 %
    Went to college here : (25 votes)
    10 %
    Moved for a job here : (48 votes)
    19 %
    Moved for an SO here : (32 votes)
    13 %
    Moved to be closer to my family : (22 votes)
    9 %
    Moved to be closer to ILs : (4 votes)
    2 %
    Chose it because it seemed like a good place to live : (34 votes)
    14 %
    Chose it because it was a more affordable place to live : (15 votes)
    6 %
    Other? : (7 votes)
    3 %
    Moved for grad school : (4 votes)
    2 %
  1. MrsH

    honeydew / 7667 posts

    Grew up here, family is here, great place to live.

  2. Silva

    cantaloupe / 6017 posts

    We both grew up in this state, but we are living here currently because it's where my husband got into med school/residency. We would have gone where ever those two adventures took us. We also plan to live in this state when he is done residency.

  3. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    I'm here for school. BUT, I applied here because it's a cool city with low cost of living, with great opportunities for DH. So, lots of reasons!

  4. nana87

    cantaloupe / 6171 posts

    I voted job, since I moved for my career, but really it's for grad school. We will have to move again and it'll be for my career too, wherever the academic job market takes me. Luckily dh's work is very flexible-- he can work from home, thank goodness!

  5. Kemma

    grapefruit / 4291 posts

    DH was posted here in January so we packed up our life and shifted just over a month ago!

  6. Grace

    cantaloupe / 6730 posts

    @illumina: hahaha, no. This is my backyard right now. There's grass under there, somewhere.



  7. IRunForFun

    pomelo / 5509 posts

    I grew up here, went to college here, and my family is here, plus DH applied to grad schools all over the country and ended up getting into and choosing a local school! We may move when he's done, but not tooo far away.

  8. mrs.shinerbock

    pomegranate / 3779 posts

    I grew up about 2 hrs from here, but moved away for school and later work. I moved back 6 yrs ago after doing the long distance thing with DH for 2 yrs. Coincidence that he lived in the same city as my sister, but moving closer to family made the decision easy. (Plus the job market here was booming, unlike most of the country in 2008.)

  9. NavyRN2012

    persimmon / 1447 posts

    For a job (with the Navy). We will by somewhere new next year though!

  10. meganmp

    persimmon / 1420 posts

    I grew up here. Also, this:



  11. rachiecakes

    coconut / 8279 posts

    I love it! Not too far from my hometown & family, but far enough.
    I've lived in other states/cities and I found that my heart belongs here.

  12. yellowbird

    honeydew / 7303 posts

    We moved here for my job. I don't think we will be here forever, but probably for the next 5-6 years if I continue to get loan repayment. I think after that we'll either move back to our college town where DHs parents live or somewhere fun!

  13. BananaPancakes

    grapefruit / 4817 posts

    I hate where we live. We both grew up here and both of our families live here, as well. My husband loves it, though, so here we are. I'd love to live just about anywhere else. Anywhere. Seriously.

  14. mrsbookworm

    pear / 1823 posts

    I grew up in the state, though not close to where we live. DH moved here for a job, we met and when we got married we picked the town we live in because it's close to his work, has a good school system and we found a house we liked. It's not my dream location, but it's a good place to raise a child.

  15. jhd

    coconut / 8079 posts

    I voted other. My parents moved here when I was in college. I moved home for a bit after grad school & met DH. We lived about an hour away for a few years and just bought a house 20 min from my parents this fall.

  16. GrapeCrush

    grapefruit / 4823 posts

    Both DH and I are from here.

  17. Penny Lane

    nectarine / 2163 posts

    @meganmp: wowwww. that is stunning

    I originally moved here for college. we are both still here because this is where DHs job is. if it wasn't for this job DH would move in a second

  18. ShootingStar

    coconut / 8472 posts

    I moved here for an internship during grad school and then stayed for a permanent position at the same company. I met DH one of the first few days of my internship. He's from here and all his family lives here. We stay because we have jobs and friends and family near-ish, but we dream of moving somewhere with milder weather and cheaper cost of living.

  19. NorCalWayfarer

    nectarine / 2134 posts

    DH and I moved to SF after college for job/grad school. When we were ready to buy a house and have kids, we decided to move out of the city and to the suburbs. We found an area that we liked, wasn't too far from the city on public transportation, had good schools, and was affordable. The bonus is that we're about an hour away from where we both grew up -- which I think is the perfect distance from parents/ILs

  20. lindseykaye

    pear / 1992 posts

    DH and I are from neighboring cities on the beach. He moved to our current city for college, I moved thousands of miles away but came back after just not being able to handle a New England winter. We met when I was visiting friends in this city and did the long-distance thing before I moved here to be with him. I was fortunate to have access good schools and jobs in both places. The average age of our hometowns is 30 years older than where we live and the cost if living is significantly more affordable so though we have lots of ties to there, and it is technically paradise, we don't want to mode back

  21. Mrs. Champagne

    coconut / 8483 posts

    Moved here (3 hours away from hometown) with DH (then BF) for his job.

  22. rattles

    grapefruit / 4903 posts

    I moved here the first time for a job. I met my now DH here, and he grew up here. I left for law school but moved back to marry him.

  23. georgiegirl83

    coffee bean / 33 posts

    I moved to where I live now b/c my dad got relocated when I was in school and I couldn't stand being states away. (Can you say homebody?)

    I'm still here because I can't convince my husband to move to a warmer locale!

  24. MoonMoon

    pomegranate / 3393 posts

    We have no choice
    We work in academia and we can't get new jobs in our fields very easily.

    ETA: neither of us grew up or went to school here.

  25. regberadaisy

    GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts

    Whole mix of reasons.

    I first came to this area 14 years ago for college. I met DH here and we fell in love. Yada Yada. I then moved back after college to be with him. We ultimately decided to settle here and raise our family because it's a great family firendly city, affordable and conducive to the way we want to raise our kids. I will always be a NYC girl at heart but living in NYC is not how we want to raise our kids. We want a big house, big open backyards for them to run around in. We want them to know the country and not by driving an hour to get to it. These are all things a normal middle class family can not achieve in NYC.
    I was very worried our children would not be "cultured" by being raised here. The thought of our children never riding public transportation till they're a teen or until the visit the "big city" scares the crap out of me. But I realized that hey, I'm from NYC and my family lives there. They will be there 3-4x a year. They'll be plenty "cultured".

  26. bhbee

    cantaloupe / 6086 posts

    we just like the Boston area - I moved to NYC for DH before we got married but I was pushing to move back to Boston (which we did after two years). we'd both lived in Boston before for school and my company had an office there so it was easy (DH was laid off at the time). we might be moving to TX this spring for a new job for DH and it will be a HUGE lifestyle change for us - some good, some bad.

  27. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    No choice for moved here for graduate school! I did, then stayed for a bf, then broke up, then stayed for a job, then met my DH, then stayed for him. Neither of us are from this area, so we constantly talk about moving away to be closer to family, but haven't really pulled the plug.

  28. LalaYes

    cherry / 171 posts

    We decided to stay in the state where we grew up and we decided that it would be beneficial to live by family so we picked a neighborhood we love and it's about 15 minutes from my parents and 15 minutes from my in laws, it's perfect for us!

  29. Foodnerd81

    wonderful cherry / 21504 posts

    @JoJoGirl: I added grad school to the college option-- moving for school in general seems close enough.

  30. JoJoGirl

    cantaloupe / 6206 posts

    @Foodnerd81: I suppose! I guess I see it as different because I left home once for college (east coast to midwest) and moved to a completely different part of the country (northeast) for grad school. With a year abroad in between. So many moves!

  31. Foodnerd81

    wonderful cherry / 21504 posts

    @JoJoGirl: True. I added another option, though my poll may not be scientifically valid anymore

  32. SugarplumsMom

    bananas / 9227 posts

    Moved to be with hubs, then chose our town because it's a nice place to raise LO. It's not so far from where he grew up, but he's never been to our town prior to us initially visiting it.

  33. AmandaB8

    clementine / 849 posts

    DH got into law school here. I became established in a career I love, and he found a job here post school. We're only 3 hours from our families (which is close enough but not too close!) and have a great network of friends. So we're staying!

    Plus, Kansas City is an incredibly affordable city to live in.

  34. Mrs. High Heels

    blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts

    We both went to college here, then ended up with jobs here... both our hometowns are also only 20-30 minutes away, so we just always stayed around. It's a really great city too, so we haven't really had any reason to leave.

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